LIFESTYLE

FACTS AND FANTASIES ABOUT MASTURBATION

Does everyone do it? Or has everyone done it? The answer is yes!
For some people, masturbation is actually the high point of their day. The celebrated gynecologist Hector Treub put it succinctly: ‘We’ve all masturbated and those who say they’ve never done it are still doing it!’
Of all sexual actions, masturbation remains the most difficult one to discuss openly. When it is good it is a strictly personal experience, which many people have learned quite wrongly is dirty, sinful, shameful or even unhealthy. It is, however, the most common human sexual expression and is perfectly normal.
Why do we do it? Is it because sex with our partner does not satisfy us? Because there is no partner? Because men watch porn and can’t contain themselves? Because women read exciting, erotic books? Is it a universal physical need? In my view, none of those questions are very relevant. Masturbation is not a hobby of profligate, hedonistic individualists. The cranking up of the machine is a thing in itself, without a moral component. Nothing to worry your head about. Masturbation is relaxing for both men and women and acts as an excellent soporific, without side effects. Apart from that, it is free.
Many modern sex education books suggest that masturbation is a good way of discovering one’s own body. In that way, they argue, the adolescent is better prepared when he or she starts having sex with a partner. That seems to imply that masturbation is fine, but is unnecessary once one is in a relationship. However, recent surveys indicate that almost all men masturbate, at all ages, even when they are in a relationship. The percentage of women who masturbate is lower than that of men. Many women still feel embarrassed when asked about masturbation and the suspicion is consequently that a considerable proportion still answers incorrectly in the negative. In fact, for many women it is their only means of achieving orgasm. And then there is the fact that, in comparison with men, women have the great advantage that for them masturbation causes no mess and usually leaves no visible trace.
For several centuries masturbation was considered as a “sinful affliction.” In around 1712 the British surgeon John Marten, in a treatise entitled Onania, or the Heinous Sin of Self Pollution (inspired by the Old Testament figure of Onan, punished for choosing to pour his seed on the ground rather than father a child on his late brother’s wife), describes ‘onanism’ as a new disease. Marten explains that masturbation is widespread and frequently practiced out of sheer ignorance: ‘Through solitude or vanity boys learn self-abuse and self-pollution, without knowing how wrong and dangerous it really is.’ His treatise became a veritable sensation, and sold widely. Published in medical journals and ordinary newspapers it found its way all round Europe.

25 ADVANTAGES OF BEIGN A WOMAN

1. Women got off the Titanic first.2. Women get to flirt with systems support men who always return their calls, and are nice to them when they blow up thier computers.3. Their boyfriend’s clothes make them look elfin & gorgeous. Guys look like complete idiots in thiers.4. Women can cry and get off speeding fines.5. Women never lusted after a cartoon character or the central female figure in a computer game.6. Taxis stop for them.7. Men die earlier, so they get to cash in on the life insurance.8. Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies … (you get the point).9. Women can hug thier friends without wondering if  they’re gay.10. Behind every successful man is a Woman.11. It’s possible to live thier whole lives without ever taking a group shower.12. Women don’t have to fart to amuse ourselves.13. If they forget to shave, no one has to know.14. Women can congratulate their team-mate without ever touching her butt.15. If they have a zit, they know how to conceal it.16. Women never have to reach down every so often to make sure their privates are still there.17. If women are dumb, some people will find it cute.18. Women have the ability to dress themselves.19. Women can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture them naked.20. Their friends won’t think they’re weird if they ask whether there’s spinach in their teeth.21. There are times when chocolate really can solve all their problems.22. Women never regret piercing their ears.23. Women can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.24. Women know which glass was theirs by the lipstick mark.25. Women have enough sense to realize that the easiest way to get out of being lost is to ask for directions. Share and Enjoy